Governments want babies, but people want choices

More people are choosing not to have children, sparking big debates and changing how we view family and society.

The childfree trend — where individuals or couples choose not to have children — is gaining traction as people prioritise personal freedom, career goals and financial stability over parenthood.

Although this choice is becoming more accepted, it continues to spark global debate, especially among governments and pronatalists who advocate for higher birth rates to support ageing populations and ensure economic stability.

In East and Southeast Asia, language plays a crucial role in shaping society’s views on reproduction. Inclusive terms are needed to respect diverse choices and avoid marginalising those who decide parenthood isn’t for them.

Religion can also significantly influence people’s opinions on choosing not to have children.

In Muslim-majority countries such as Malaysia, choosing to remain childfree is often labelled as “unIslamic”, reflecting deep-rooted cultural and religious expectations.

In Iceland, increased gender equality has empowered more women to remain childfree, yet societal pressure to conform to traditional motherhood roles persists, leading to internal conflicts or regret for some women.

In Indonesia, the rising childfree movement and the trend of delaying or avoiding marriage altogether are reshaping societal norms, driven in part by increased educational and career opportunities.

The childfree trend highlights the need for more inclusive and respectful dialogues around reproductive choices, recognising and supporting diverse life journeys.